How do you know if she's a good Muslim or a bad Muslim?
Don't be fooled just because you don't see a hijab on her head.
Consider yourself. You wear the hijab yet you backbite other people.
How do you know where she stands with Allah as of this very moment?
She could currently be in the process of wearing the hijab because she finally truly understands what it means to cover herself for the sake of Allah. But she sees no rush in doing so because she doesn't care about what others think, only what Allah thinks. Transitions take time. Spiritual transformation takes time to complete, if one ever does. She could be in the process of giving up more for Him than you ever would.
I will not don the hijab under my mother's order.
The more she pressures me, the more I will relent.
The intention to wear it is in my heart, but I cannot force anything. I will wear it soon, inshaAllah. Just don't pressure me, for doing so will only cause the converse effect.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
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